Letting Go of Myself I Live Out a Little Like a Human
By Aimu, Malaysia
I am a mechanical engineer in charge of mechanical design and maintenance in a local heavy machinery company. I’ve been working there since I graduated from college. Soon half a year passed, and my work was coming along quite well. No matter what difficulties I met at work, I was able to solve them easily with my skilled professional technique, so the manager was very satisfied with my performance, and praised me that I was doing a good job, even a perfect job. Receiving such high marks from my manager, I immediately felt that I was a rare talent.
One day, the manager asked me to his office and said, “Because we haven’t found proper people, I expect you to take charge of some different types of heavy machineries. Consequently, you are going to have twice the workload and work longer hours. Of course, in order to ease your burden, our company will redeploy ten people as your subordinates, and you are responsible for them. What do you think?” Being entrusted with such an important task by the leader, I couldn’t restrain my feelings of excitement. I thought: With my rich knowledge I learned during my university years and the solid expertise I mastered in the internship company, I am quite qualified for the work. So, I accepted the challenge confidently.
After taking over the work, I tried assigning my subordinates some tasks to see how they would do them, and then I would make further plans according to their performances. However, I was surprised to find that though they had years of working experience, their caliber was limited. What’s more, they were rigid and inflexible. When the machine went wrong during the operation, they would turn to me for help if they failed to find a solution from the book. I thought: How dull these people are! They even don’t know how to be flexible at work after working so many years. Having no choice, I had to tell them what to do with the knowledge I had learned. However, it really frustrated me that they didn’t understand after I explained an operating process, because they had low education— they only finished junior high school. I was growing impatient and thought: How come the manager arranged for such a group of people to be my subordinates? Is this helping me or troubling me? They are so dull. I really wonder how they muddled along during the past six or seven years. I would rather do it by myself than take effort to teach them. Afterward, considering their poor caliber and low education, I dare not assign work to them. In case something would go wrong, I, as a leader, would be responsible for it. Therefore, I only assigned unimportant tasks which were irrelevant to the company’s interests to them. As for those related to the company’s interests or needed to use their heads, I would attend everything personally and study them all by myself from start to finish.
Working for less than two weeks, the new machine began to act up. What I mastered was all theoretical knowledge, so I didn’t know how to solve the problems appearing in actual operation. When thinking of the trust of the company’s leaders, I felt great pressure. In order to master the operative technique, I often worked overtime and stayed up late to study the operation manual of the machinery by myself. More than one month later, I was seriously sleep-deprived, feeling washed out at work. Moreover, I would get very nervous as soon as I heard the manager wanted to see me. One morning, the machine suddenly stopped operating. My subordinates and I spent a long time in repairing it, but failed. Consequently, it was unable to work all that morning, which seriously delayed the progress of the work. The manager scolded me and satirized me, “The capability of the university students now is really poor. What good is your knowledge?” Hearing his sarcasm, I was very defiant in my heart: Isn’t it just because I lack experience? What’s the big deal? As long as I mastered some operation skills, I would definitely not make such a mistake again.
At the end of the month, the manager held a work conference. In order to show my capability, I explained my suggestion to be incomparable with some professional knowledge. Just when I was expressing my ideas excitedly, two relatively experienced subordinates pointed out the shortcomings of my suggestion on the spot, which irritated me. I thought: How many years of education did you receive? You simply work a few years longer than me. What qualifies you to give me advice? What’s more, the manager chose me for the position. It proves that I am little less capable than you. So I argued with them. To suppress them, I couldn’t help raising my voice, and used some abstruse words and theories which they didn’t understand to argue with them. Finally, they were reduced to silence because they thought I was professional and that they should listen to me. Seeing what I said was clear and logical, the manager also accepted my suggestion.
In order to show everybody my management ability, I started to be tough on my subordinates. Each time I saw them loaf on the job, or deal with the work half-heartedly, I would come down on them like a ton of bricks until they not dare to raise their heads. One day, when I saw a subordinate visiting FB during the working hours, I was very angry. I thought: You’re too irresponsible. You have the audacity to play the cell phone with the work having not been finished. Especially, when I saw the colleagues of other departments nearby, I even more felt my dignity was challenged. My subordinates’ behaviors all represented me. So undisciplined! How would the people of other departments see me? They would definitely laugh at my incompetence! Thus, I scolded my subordinates loudly, “You must keep my rule if you work at my place. Don’t play with your phones or answer personal calls at work. Anyone who breaks the rule get out of my place.” Being rebuked by me, that subordinate didn’t dare to raise his head. At the moment I wondered if I said too much, but once I thought I was their leader, and it was my duty to manage them and make them behave themselves, I felt it was okay to do so.
A few months later, a sister preached theof the kingdom of Almighty God to me. Through the sister’s fellowship, I knew that since we humans were corrupted by Satan, there is corrupt satanic disposition within us. We live in dependence on corrupt satanic disposition, thus increasingly having no human likeness. Almighty God is incarnated and expresses the truth in the last days to save and purify us. Only if we accept God’s new work, and practice according to His words, can we be free from our corrupt disposition and live out the likeness of a normal person. The sister often shared her testimony of experiencing God’s judgment and chastisement with me. I felt her fellowship was very practical and I liked communicating with her very much.
One evening, when I was chatting with the sister online, she found that I was having a hoarse voice, so she asked what the matter was. I said, “I gave my subordinates a good scolding today. They were absent-minded and dilatory at work. They often made mistakes, which made me scolded by the manager.” After hearing my complaint, she said, “In God’s eyes we are all created beings. We are equal; it’s just that we have different jobs and duties. As a leader, you may as well try caring for them instead of just being angry with them and scolding them. What you exposed were arrogance, conceit, and lacking of love.” Hearing her words, I felt awkward, thus not saying a word. Seeing this, the sister sent me a passage of God’s words: “Once a man has status, he will often find it difficult to control his mood, and so he will enjoy seizing upon instances to express his dissatisfaction and vent his emotions; he will often flare up into rage for no apparent reason, so as to reveal his ability and let others know that his status and identity are different from those of ordinary people. Of course, corrupt people without any status will also frequently lose control. Their anger is frequently caused by damage to their individual benefits. In order to protect their own status and dignity, corrupt mankind will frequently vent their emotions and reveal their arrogant nature. Man will flare up in anger and vent his emotions in order to defend the existence of sin, and these actions are the ways with which man expresses his dissatisfaction. These actions brim with defilement; they brim with schemes and intrigues; they brim with man’s corruption and evil; more than that, they brim with man’s wild ambitions and desires.” She fellowshiped, “After we were corrupted by Satan, our nature is arrogant. Especially, when we have status, we even more feel we are different from others. Therefore, our arrogant disposition becomes more expanded. As long as we meet something unsatisfying, we will vent our emotions of dissatisfaction by anger. Actually, by doing so, we just want others to notice our status and be obedient to us. When our interests are damaged, we can’t help losing temper to defend our dignity and to make others fear us. Regardless of what situation, it is because of the arrogant disposition that we flare up into rage in order to defend our own status, benefits and dignity.”
Hearing the sister’s fellowship, I thought: In order to defend my status and dignity as their leader, I made my subordinates and people of other departments see my authority by flaring up into anger. Besides, when discussing schemes with my subordinates, if someone denied my scheme and challenged my dignity, I would argue with him loudly, with the intention to tell other subordinates that arguing with me would only make them lose face. I always thought that as a leader, I should show the leader’s dignity and make the subordinates listen to me. It turns out that my actions were the revelation of a kind of corrupt disposition, merely to maintain my status and dignity.
Then the sister read a passage of God’s words for me: “God created man, breathed life into him, and also gave him some of His intelligence, His abilities, and what He has and is. After God gave man all of these things, man was able to do some things independently and think on his own. If what man comes up with and does is good in the eyes of God, then God accepts it and does not interfere. If what man does is right, then God will just let it be that way for good. So what does the phrase ‘whatever Adam called every living creature, that was the name thereof’ indicate? It suggests that God did not make any amendments to the names of the various living creatures. Whatever name Adam called it, God would say ‘Yes’ and register the name as is. Did God express any opinions? No, that’s for sure. So what do you see here? God gave man intelligence and man used his God-given intelligence to do things. If what man does is positive in the eyes of God, then it is affirmed, acknowledged, and accepted by God without any evaluation or criticism. … if it were a corrupted person or Satan who was with Adam, they would have certainly rejected what Adam was doing. To prove that they have the ability to think independently and have their own unique insights, they would have absolutely denied everything Adam did: ‘You want to call it this? Well, I’m not going to call it this, I’m going to call it that; you called it Tom but I’m going to call it Harry. I have to show off my brilliance.’ What kind of nature is this? Is it not wildly arrogant? But does God have such a disposition? Did God have any unusual objections to this thing Adam did? The answer is unequivocally no! Of the disposition God reveals, there is not the slightest ounce of argumentativeness, arrogance, or self-rightness. That is abundantly clear here.”
The sister fellowshiped, “God is supreme, and His position and identity is honorable, but from the revelation of God’s disposition, we can see His humility and adorableness. There is no arrogance in God’s disposition. As long as what man does is according to, He will accept it, and won’t change or deny it. Comparing the revelation of God’s disposition with our attitudes to the subordinates, we can see the corrupt disposition we expose. We are too arrogant, self-righteous and self-important, while God’s disposition is so beautiful, which makes us feel ashamed.” Her fellowship made me feel too ashamed of myself to show my face. I thought: I am a corrupt man. However, once I have a high status in the company, I do what I like, and use my power to oppress others. Compared with God’s humility and hiddenness, I felt very ashamed. At that moment, I made up my mind to apologize to my subordinates and admit my mistakes bravely.
The next morning, thinking of my commitment to God the night before, I felt a little regretful: Do I really need to apologize to my subordinates? They usually love to gossip together. If I really make an apology to them, and they tell it to people of other departments, then how will they see me? Thinking it over and over again, I still felt embarrassed to do so. The third evening after work, the sister sent me a message and asked me whether I had apologized to my subordinates. I made an excuse by saying that I forgot to do so because I was too busy at work. The sister said, “It’s just an excuse. You’re escaping the apology, aren’t you?” I felt ashamed and said, “No, I’m not. I’ll apologize to them tomorrow.”
When I was about to go to work the next day, the sister sent a message to remind me of practicing the truth. I felt the pressure, but I knew I shouldn’t escape anymore, otherwise, I would have no credibility. After arriving at the company, I looked at my watch the subordinates would come in a few minutes. I was anxious and on pins and needles. The very thought of apologizing to them caused me great suffering. I still couldn’t practice it and really wanted to give it up at that moment: If I really couldn’t do that, I will lie to the sister that I have apologized. It is OK to tell a lie once. But soon I gave up this idea, because if I did so, I would feel more uneasy, and it would compound my mistake. I didn’t know what to do. Just then, God’s words occurred to me: “Suffering in the course of practicing the truth is inevitable; if, when they put the truth into practice, everything within them were right, then they would not need to be made perfect by God, and there would be no battle, and they would not suffer. It is because there are many things within people that are not fit for use by God, and much of the rebellious disposition of the flesh, that people need to learn the lesson of rebelling against the flesh more profoundly. This is what God calls the suffering that He asked man to undergo with Him.” From God’s words I realized that I was deeply corrupted by Satan, which made it too difficult for me to practice the truth and live out a proper humanity. At that time, I realized that we greatly needed God’s salvation and understood that today God created such an environment not to humiliate me, but to save me from the bondage of Satan to live out the likeness of a normal man. Therefore, in my heart I prayed to God silently for strength and courage, with which I could practice the truth to testify for God. After the, I calmed down gradually. All the subordinates came to work then, and so I asked them to come to the meeting room. I first said sorry to them and then laid myself open to them, confessing I had done things that hurt them before, and asking for their forgiveness. After the apology, my mind was relieved from a very heavy weight and I felt relaxed. Surprised by my behavior as they were, my subordinates all showed understanding for the great pressure I had as a leader. Seeing they were so reasonable, I felt ashamed: They are really good persons, but I treated them so bad. I am too corrupt.
From then on, I often had meals with them, and asked if there was anything they didn’t understand at work. I helped them as much as possible. They also talked with me about their families and work. Having contacted with them for some time, I felt they were all very kind, just like my predecessors. Our relationship became harmonious.
Because a lot of work was done by myself in the company, I often felt physically and mentally exhausted. Once in a meeting, my brothers and sisters asked about my recent situation. I told them my opinion on the subordinates and the pressure I faced at work. Then a sister said, “Actually, all things of God’s creation are perfect. Everyone has their strengths. If we often think we are better than others, it shows that we are too arrogant. Let’s read two passages of God’s words: ‘Among all things of creation, from the great to the small, from the small to the microscopic, there was none which was not created by the authority and power of the Creator, and there was a unique and inherent necessity and value to the existence of each creature. Regardless of the differences in their shape and structure, they had but to be made by the Creator to exist under the authority of the Creator.’ ‘Don’t be self-righteous; take the strengths of others and use them to offset your own deficiencies…. If you regard others as less than you then you are self-righteous, self-conceited and are of benefit to no one.’” After reading God’s words, the sister continued to fellowship, “God is righteous. Though He gives each man different caliber and capability, there is value in the existence of each creature. Our feelings of being superior to others and looking down upon others result from our arrogant and self-righteous disposition, which leads us to compare our advantages with others’ disadvantages. Thus we can’t treat others fairly, much less let them fulfill their duties. You may as well try to help them find their own level in the work and bring out the best in them, and thus they can do the work well. At the same time, you can learn from others’ strong points to make up your own deficiencies, and enhance your own work ability in return.”
After listening to the sister’s fellowship, I felt a light broke in upon me: I always exalted myself and belittled others because of my high degree of education and the expertise I mastered. It turns out this resulted from my arrogant and conceited nature. People who don’tall say that “Everybody can do something,” but why can’t I see others’ strengths? If they are really good for nothing, how can they have worked in the company for so long? Maybe I am really wrong. I should try to give full play to their specialty, and we can share out the work and cooperate with one another to finish the work together. At that moment, I was a little relieved. The next day, I gradually began to assign them tasks.
One evening several days later, I had something else to do, so I had to get off work earlier. However, there were some work undone. When I was worrying about what to do, I suddenly remembered the sister once fellowshiped that each man had his own strength, and that we should trust others and not underestimate them. So I tried letting go of the work and entrusted it to my subordinates and meanwhile I offered several solutions for their reference. The next day, the manager asked me to go to his office. I felt nervous in my heart: Is there anything wrong with the work I gave to my subordinates yesterday? When I walked into the manager’s office and saw his serious expression, I felt even more nervous, thinking: It must be something wrong with yesterday’s work. This time I will definitely be scolded by him again. When I was just looking around and didn’t know what to do, the manager suddenly stretched out his hand to shake hands with me. Before I realized what was happening, the manager shook my hand and smiled at me, “The customer called this morning and said that our team was very great. All their problems were solved efficiently. It’s all down to you.” I was very surprised to hear his words. I knew my subordinates should take credit for that rather than I. So I honestly told the manager, “I assigned the work to my subordinates yesterday and left earlier because I had something else to deal with. It’s all their credit.” However, the manager said, “This is because you exercise good leadership.” I didn’t expect that the manager would praise me, which made me very happy. But what made me more excited was that I truly saw God’s deeds and experienced His words are the truth. As long as I practiced according to God’s words, I could see the authority of His words. Thank God!
After this thing, I rearranged the work. First, I chose two men from the ten as the team leaders. As for the subordinates with poor capabilities, I asked them to learn from the leaders. I was in charge of training the leaders. Thus, I would have more time to do things of my own. After the arrangement, I found they each had their own merits. Some were experienced and could get the key points to the problems, and solve them. Some worked slowly, but they were careful and steady, so they seldom made mistakes. Some liked to study. When they met some problems that they didn’t understand, they would search the internet and watch videos for solutions. More to the point, when my subordinates were busy at work, they would no longer play their cell phones. Seeing such a result, I was moved very much. I realized that I was too ignorant and too foolish in the past. If I had let them be tempered earlier, I wouldn’t have been that tired. How harmful the arrogant and self-righteous corrupt disposition was!
Once in a meeting, a sister fellowshiped with us, “After we were corrupted by Satan, it has instilled all kinds of satanic poisons into our heart. As we live by these satanic poisons, everything we reveal is a corrupt disposition. For example, when we live by the satanic poison of ‘I am my own lord,’ our disposition is filled with arrogance and conceit. In everything, we are self-centered, always making others obey us, and we are unable to accept others’ suggestions easily. Therefore, if we want to solve the corrupt disposition of being arrogant and conceited, we must accept the judgment and chastisement of God’s word, reflect on our corrupt disposition and then practice the truth and live by God’s words.”
From her fellowship, I realized that the corrupt disposition of arrogance and conceit is deeply rooted in each of us and it dominates our every word and deed. It is a satanic disposition which needs solving urgently. Knowing this, when I was with others, I would learn to put myself aside. When discussing the work, I would give each one the chance to voice their opinions. And when we disagreed with each other, I would no longer maintain my own opinion, but put the matter to a vote to decide which plan was more favorable to the company. When I did like this, I found that though my subordinates’ suggestions were routine, they were worth listening to. Combining their suggestions with my proposal absolutely made a perfect scheme.
One day, I read God’s words: “In his life, if man wishes to be cleansed and achieve changes in his disposition, if he wishes to live out a life of meaning, and fulfill his duty as a creature, then he must accept God’s chastisement and judgment, and must not allow God’s discipline and God’s smiting to depart from him, so he can free himself from the manipulation and influence of Satan and live in the light of God. Know that God’s chastisement and judgment is the light, and the light of man’s salvation, and that there is no better blessing, grace or protection for man.” In the judgment and chastisement of Almighty God’s words, I saw I was an arrogant and self-righteous person, who didn’t know how to respect and be considerate toward others, and had no love for others. Living by the corrupt disposition, I brought others bondage, restriction, and even hurt. Meanwhile, I also saw that God’s disposition of humility and hiddenness is so beautiful and admirable. I was willing to practice the truth and live out the normal humanity according to His words. Later, my heart was truly relieved when I learned to put myself aside and treat people fairly according to God’s words. After the experience, I understood that God’s judgment and chastisement is the light, the greatest blessing and protection for human. Only His judgment and chastisement can enable me to know my corrupt disposition, and to cast it off. I am willing to accept more of His judgment and chastisement, and live as a genuine person to comfort His heart. All the glory be to Almighty God!